Parenting View point

When you had kids, did you change your life around to be child friendly. Or have the kids fit into your life as it is?

I guess for me, we adapted our life once we had kids (not that it was hard...lol we aren't super exciting people). But an older couple we knew said "you shouldn't change your life for a child. They need to fit into your life".

I am not really sure how you can keep your old life going once you have a kid. But its probably money and tons of support I guess.