Longest without sex with significant other ?

For me it’s been a month and some time now I believe don’t remember but some time in October-was last time . We have 3 kids (9,4 and 8 months ) it feels like it just happened. I work during the day and he works at night with off days of Wednesday and Thursday mine being weekends. This is the longest ever in our marriage going without sex or having us time alone ( o with kids it’s happens it used to be before baby #2 a couple days then after baby #2 maybe a week or two but never a month or more with baby #3. I hope we can get back to us it’s been difficult with timing and life in general. Honestly I want to get that time together first then being intimate will happen whenever. Needed to get poll and maybe some feedback. Thanks 😊