I don't want to be a Debby downer, but...

Why is everyone so excited when they find out they're pregnant?

I have extreme cramping I can't even be excited because I'm terrified af that this is an ectopic pregnancy. How can you guys get so excited and not have the fear of it possibly being an ectopic pregnancy or worrying about miscarrying 24/7? Idk what it is with this pregnancy but I'm constantly worried and this cramping is even worse than my period cramps and I just want the pain to end 😭😭😭😭😭 But I have tow kids at home, I can't just go to the ER. But this horrific cramping does not seem normal to me, I can't even stand up straight! But there's no blood right now so idfk. I've had this cramping for two weeks 😬 I can't even be happy about this pregnancy because the pain is SCARING ME!