Considering breaking up with fiancé and baby daddy

***Update: I have cancelled the wedding and we are in the process of splitting finances and household items, we’ve come to agreement on a custody arrangement and so far everything has been really civil.

I’m hoping that apart we will be able to grow as people and be the best parents to our son.

I’m still living with him while I organise the logistics of moving (probably to live with my mum because $$)

Thank you for everyone’s comments, it’s hard to see things from another perspective when you’re living it***

My partner and I have been together 7 years, we have a 2.5year old together and are meant to be getting married in January.

We’ve been having some relationship issues though and it’s getting to the point We are considering breaking up.

I love us when we are good but right now we seem to be bad more often.

Left is pros of staying in relationship, right in cons.