I have identified as a lesbian for a whole year now, but now Im starting to not only fantasize about girls but guys to. I think going back to school has an impact, because I see guys everday now and talk to them sometimes. Lately ive been fantasizing about having relationships with them, but Im not sure if its something that will pass or if this is something my unconscious is telling me to pursue. I decided I didnt want to be with a man last year, because I know I WILL NOT want to have sex with them and I gag at the idea. With women, it just feels natural and I feel safe. I know that my attraction to genders is greatly impacted by my childhood; being sexually assualted by men multiple times I stopped feeling safe around them. But what if I can feel safe around them again? But at the same time I know Im not going all in with them, and it will most likely end in me hurting them. I guess Im just wondering if anyone has felt this way before, and if I could get some guidance.