FTM- visitors

So I moved away 3/4 years ago and now live far from my family and friends. I’m newly pregnant and my mom and friends are already planning on coming as soon as baby is here. My mom will be staying with us and I just don’t know how to feel. I feel like I want my space as this is a new adjustment for my husband and I and we need our privacy to learn and enjoy our newborn. I don’t want to have to take care of another person while learning how to be a new mom or hosting anyone. I don’t even know what to tell anyone but I really don’t want anyone in my home so fast. Do I sound like a complete grinch? I know nobody has bad intentions and my mom just wants to help but 😟