i turned 18 in september & the following month i found out i was pregnant, it wasn’t planned but when i found out my bf wanted me to get an abortion, he has a v strict family who doesn’t like me because of a situation i got in that they viewed me differently, but because of that & him wanting to move on with a career in his life he wanted me to get rid of it, saying i was trapping him for wanting to keep it. i ended up miscarrying 2 days after i found out but that’s besides the point. with all the things he was saying i thought a lot about it, & my thoughts were, well if i don’t want an abortion i’m not getting one, & if he doesn’t want to b in the child’s life i’ll have full custody & won’t make him pay child support, OR if i definitely couldnt take care of it do adoption (obviously going through all the options of pregnancy) but even tho he didnt want me to have the baby, he said he wants to see it if i have it? & he doesn’t want another man taking care of his child? or if i put it up for adoption he doesn’t want his kid being with anyone else. so thinking back on it, i don’t know what to think, cuz how do you want me to get an abortion & want nothing to do with me, but if i DO have the baby say you want to b there for it so no one else can?