Does this make me a bad mom?

Question

me and my daughters father are great at co-parenting I originally have her 5 days a week but some nights I ask her dad if he wants her and he doesn’t mind at all he loves spending time with her and giving me some rest but his mother bashes me saying I’m putting her off and I’m starting to feel that way like for the last 3 nights she stayed with her dad but spent all day with me and his mother just judges me for it does this make me a bad mother

Answer

No. I’m not a single mom but I am still on 24/7 with my kids. You’re taking advantage of a highly functional situation, and you’re highly functional co-parents. Would she rather you be burned out? 
Good for you guys for having a system in place that works for you.

Answer

No. My mom was a great mom and was a single parent. I would live one week at my grandparents and one week at my moms and every other weekend at my dads. My mom worked 50-60 hours a week. I also had a great daycare lady that I absolutely loved. My mom was a great mom to me because she had support and didn’t have to do it all on her own and therefor didn’t get burnt out. And I had a whole village that loved and cared for me. It was hard to bounce around so much but she didn’t plan to be a single parent and she did the best she could. That’s all anyone can ask for. You’re doing great.

Does this make me a bad mom?

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