Help me

**Sorry for the long post , if it doesn’t make sense I apologize , literally having a panic attack while I wrote this . I just really need to let everything out and being anonymous on here really makes me comfortable and really makes it easy .

I’m almost 22 and he’s almost 28

So , I’m a stay at home mom during the week and I work fri-sun 3-11pm . I have a 15 month old to take care of plus normal house duties . I’m also 4 months pregnant with a second girl . My fiancé and all of us all live with my mom at the moment due to our financial struggles . I get no help whatsoever , it’s like I have to argue to get my point across , like I understand he works 2 jobs all week from 8-8pm , I appreciate it . I’m going through a lot rn with being pregnant again a year later im frustrated , even on the weekends I’ll do what I normally do during the week , I’ll clean , do laundry , play with my daughter , feed her , change her , give her baths and everything that has to do with taking care of a toddler . As soon as my fiancé gets home , he either goes straight on the game or straight to take a nap . I don’t get any of that during the week or on the weekends . Plus I bring him to work every morning , even if the night before I’m up with my daughter because she likes to fight her sleep and get up super early in the morning . I literally get about 3-4 hours of sleep , at most . I’m not complaining for having a working fiancé , like I said I appreciate all the work he does to provide for us . But with the whole parenting , I feel like I’m doing it alone . There’s no talking with him to express how I feel because he’ll just make it about himself like “I Work all day , I should be able to come home and sleep or play my game if I want to” . Like I get all that but , why do I have to take care of OUR daughter 24/7 by myself , I beg for help . Just a 30 min to an hour nap would be perfect right now . I can’t even shower when I want to , when he’s home I have to wait until my daughter is sleeping . I’m so frustrated and I have nobody to vent to or anything . It’s just me and my daughter all day until my fiancé gets home , but even then it’s just me and my daughter . I get told I’m the bad guy for getting upset and feeling how I do . It’s always about how he feels but , never listens to how I feel no matter how I approach it .

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