Ugh i feel stupid for even asking this

Literally posting anonymous because I feel that dumb. But is it possible to be in early labor and… not be in pain?

Im 37+ 5. I’ve lost my mucous plug in bits and had a bit of spotting the last couple days. Have crazy rectal pressure and nausea, and I’ve pooped like 10x since yesterday. Every time I pee, I wipe and stand up and as I’m walking to the sink I feel liquid running down my legs but it’s such a little amount that I can’t imagine it’s my water. But I also can’t imagine I’ve peed myself after peeing 5x in a row. 🥴 My stomach is contracting crazy hard, way stronger than my usual BH, and my back and pelvis feel incorporated into it sometimes, but they’re not what I would call painful and definitely not regular. They happen so frequently just not following any pattern. I feel like going to L&D is just crying wolf. But how long will this last? I’ve read about false labor, prodromal labor, early labor and they all have “pain” in common. I’m so uncomfortable, nauseous, and exhausted but not in pain. Am I doomed to this for the rest of my pregnancy??