My boyfriend called me an asshole for this? Opinions??
I haven’t seen my boyfriend in month now, he left to go help a friend move and after that he left to go see his family who lives in another state. He was supposed to come back two weeks ago because I bought concert tickets to one of our favorite bans but when he was with his family he got a cold and said he didn’t want to drive all the way down here with a cold. He was a few states away. I was really mad because we had this planned for a while now and I know he was overreacting to the cold he got, he’s always a baby when it comes to colds. I had to sell the tickets because I couldn’t find anyone else who could take me to the concert. I was pissed. Last night when he was driving home he called me because I was supposed to stay the night with him this weekend, I got to his house before he did and got us champagne and lit candles, I ran us a bath and was trying to set up the mood because since I haven’t seen him in so long we have been sexting and talking about how horny we both are. Well he called me and told me his little brother was coming down with him and was spending the weekend with him and his mom was picking him up Sunday. I was so annoyed, I emptied the tub, picked everything up and left, I haven’t seen him in so long and I’m just so annoyed because I’m starting a new job Monday and probably won’t be able to see him in another two weeks since we’ll both have crazy work schedules. He called me again when he got home and I wasn’t there and I didn’t pick up. I just got home and took some melatonin and I was out and didn’t wake up until 1 pm today. He keeps texting me and calling me asking to hang out and I told him I didn’t want to, he asked why and I told him that I don’t even like hanging out with my own siblings so why would I hang out with his? Now he’s mad and doesn’t understand why I feel that way. I told him all I wanted was a little alone time for us and he said he didn’t mind that he hadn’t seen me in a while and he doesn’t understand why I’m annoyed, he thinks it would be the same if we hang out with his brother or we hang out alone. Am I wrong for feeling like this?
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