Say I don’t feel safe at their house or make excuses?

So a friend of mine just got her first place with her boyfriend. I went over to visit and it’s not in a safe area at all its in a dangerous high crime area of the ghetto. They have been there only 3 months and have had their house broken into once and someone attempting to break in a second time but they scared them away before they got in.

Their car got shot in their front yard during a shooting. They say they hear gunshots all the time, people or gangs walking around the streets all hours of the night up to no good, and hear about multiple robberies from neighbors and the news.

My friend is always inviting me over, and when she use to live with her parents I would go over there often. Now I try to always have them come over to my house instead. One time when I tried to invite her to my house instead they said they were worried to leave their house at night because people might notice them leave and rob their house while they are gone.

I don’t feel safe at her home and don’t want to go over to their house. Should I tell her the truth or just keep making excuses and trying to invite them to my house instead? I don’t want to offend them but it’s truly how I feel.

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