So I'm married with a 1 year old. However, I guess you could say I'm a "married single mom" because while yes my husband works (which is appreciated) but he does absolutely nothing to help with the house or our child. I can't tell you the last time he changed a diaper. And to be completely honest, I truly don't think he could tell you how much whole milk our child drinks a day or if would even know where to begin on what to feed him for breakfast.

I haven't had anytime to myself in a year. Hell, my child still sits in the bathroom with me while I shower. I do it all. And without really even complaining. I do all the daily things, all the extras like appts etc.

He works 8-10 hr days, comes home showers eats and goes to bed. Which I get, he's tired. I'm not saying he's not but there are times that he barely even interacts with us.

But, he wants to say I need to do this or that. Or I don't need to do this or that when it comes to our child about certain things. He wants to tell me how or what I'm doing with our child is wrong. Like if I don't let him cry it out at certain times, I'm in the wrong.. but if I let him cry, and it's getting on his nerves, I get that look that's like get him..

He then gets mad at me and yells because when I don't do things his way, "he don't even know why he's here when he don't have a say so"

But he only wants a say so in certain things such as discipline or the cry it out shit..

I'm about to my breaking point..

I understand that his the dad and he has thoughts too but I'm doing the best I can with no help...