Who should've been the one who got to sleep?

We have 2 little ones ages 2.5 and 1 year old. Im a sahm my partner works. He works from 4am to 9am. Today i woke up with our boys this morning ( i do most mornings). He insists on taking naps before he has to go to work. I get it but tonight im so mad about it. I done door dash for 3 hours today just to get some money to pull us through. I then come home just to keep getting up to deal with our kids needs. He helped with a few but it was minimal help. I made dinner i done bath time i asked him to run and get milk and make them a bottle/cup for bed. I didnt realize it was still early 7pm. My youngest was sleeping by 8. I knew he would be back up and stay up all night until about 7am when my oldest is starting his day. I feel that i should've got that nap tonight. Im exhausted and wore out. Im to the point i cant take another person touching me or ill lose it. Im tapped out completely. He just started this job a week ago so its been a adjustment but its not as bad when he actually helps instead of yelling or getting frustrated because he has better things to do. Am i wrong for being mad?