To each their own, I don’t judge anyone, but everyone has a different sex drive, everyone has physical needs, emotional needs, sexual needs, and a lot of times when they don’t have those needs met, they find them another people which is why infidelity happens a lot of the time. My partner has a very high sex drive just like I do, which is why it works. We couldn’t be better matched, we have the same sense of humor, he can keep up with me which is very rare to find, my partner is 59. I am 43, I look like I am 20 lol. We have that whole daddy/daughter dominant and submissive thing going. My guy loves and looks forward to shark week because he gets oral sex, but not everyone is me. What is normal for one person may not be normal for someone else. Every relationship is different. Some people live like roommates, some people have little kids, and sex is the last thing on their mind, some people have sex once a week, once a month, once a year, some people have it every day it also depends how long you’ve been in a relationship with someone, but you also have to realize relationships are what you make them. I’ve been with my partner a year and a half, and it’s still like day one. All over each other the minute we walk through the door. You can’t compare one relationship to another because everyone is different. Somebody on here I was reading last night or 23 and 24 year old couple, and he had low sex drive at 23 years old. Like I said everyone is different. I lucked out with my partner that he has a high sex drive like I do. It’s hard when it’s on evenly matched and one person has to supplement with masturbation or being miserable or whatever it may be, because the last thing you want is them looking for their needs being met elsewhere. But like I said in the beginning Every relationship is different and you can’t judge your own based on someone else’s experience. It all depends what your life is like, your priorities, if you’ve got little ones, where they are grown or an out of the house, my partners kids are in their 20s, it’s a different story they aren’t even home, he’s an empty Nester. Totally different situation than when he kids were younger I’m sure.