Labeling disorders

I was creating a group lately for survivors of NPD

. I was wondering people’s thoughts on how it should be addressed . I got off quora cause almost everyone said only certified people and specialists should be able to talk about NPD . I then had it dawn on me … does that mean survivors can never share their experiences then? Cause how are you supposed to address it without at some point labeling it ??? Also, how will we prevent it from happening if “labeling” is so against the rules. Personally I don’t believe “narcissist” should be thrown around so loosely . I also don’t think good people and survivors should have to suffer because of those people who don’t fully understand it’s a disorder and are directly causing harm to the survivors of Narcissistic abuse in the process. when it comes to preventing something to happen to you, speaking about it basically makes label in necessary cause it attaches logic to it. Not as a means to demonize but simply , calling out the behaviors and understanding what’s happening.