Mind games

So my boyfriend said this morning when I was waking up with a laugh his friend wanted to go out for drinks, and bring his girl and me go too, and my boyfriend said “I guess mom he wants mom to go to” (boyfriend mom) and I was like he want Mami to go too? Like to hang out with us as couples or is his mom coming along too? Eaither way I didn’t really care I would have loved for them to come along and hang out. Wel the day went by and I was cleaning up I cooked, around 7:30 his friend calls. Asks if my boyfriend I coming out. And I totally forgot. Because usually my boyfriend goes out with his friends by himself, I’m never invited, and when I am invited I end up not going because the kids have no baby sitter, or because he wants to have a guys night!

Anyways. His friend calls and I had forgot, I was like why didn’t you remind me earlier, he’s said oh what do I have to wipe your ass? This man goes out usually after 11 pm at night. So 7:30? To go have some drinks seamed kinda early for him. Is it wrong that I asked why he hasn’t reminded me earlier? Or said hey babe do you still want to go out? Instead he told me he shouldn’t have to wipe my ass, and who is gonna h e to watch the kids?

I’m thinking maybe he could have reminded me earlier, or called a family member and asked if they could watch the kids because he was going to take me out. It as my responsibility to cook, clean, bathe the kids, and get them Ready for bed but he couldn’t go ahead and cal someone and make me feel special.

He got an attitude with me and well I shouldn’t have to remind you.

I feel like a man who cared about hi women would be like hey babe, did you still want to go out for drinks tonight? I got a baby sitter, let’s get ready.

Nope. I get, do I need to wipe your ass? It’s already this time of night?

If he actually cared to go out he would have mentioned it

I asked my boyfriend last week if he wanted to go out and he told me I didn’t deserve too

Last year he bought me a never dying rose in a glass water, the first thing he ever picked out for me in the 4 years we’ve dated. And when we got into an argument he told me to throw it away or he would smash it. So don’t come for me and think I’m horrible just because I asked for a reminder as I have 3 kids and have been cleaning and taking care of my little ones. ALso! Out of every day he goes out. The one day he invites me it’s a school night

For anyone wondering/asking if there his kids,

Yes they are his kids. I met him when I was 18. And he was 26.

I have a 6 year old, that is not his but she was dna when we met and thinks of him as her dad