Anyone in here that doesn’t like the idea of things in marriage ?

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Examples: joint accounts, name changes on documents, & homes/cars.

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😳 I dont like how alot of men think women should go 50/50 on bills but then they dont want to do 50/50 on parenting and household chores and responsibilities.
😳 I dont like how some “breadwinners “ or “sole providers” think all parenting responsibilities is sahm and dont give her a break or financial say.
😳I dint like how people say “marriage is just a peice of paper”…….well so is money😎.
😳 I dont like how easily people break their vowels for no good reason. “Im not happy” and dint seek guidance, therapy, or any other options including separation before divorce.

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You don't do any of that in marriage unless you want to. A joint account allows you to both put money into it so this way you don't have to put your bills into your other account you could just take the money out of the joint account. Change your last name or hyphenating it makes it easier on other legal documents.

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Yes, that's why I am currently solo polyam, although the type of polyam I practice may change with time. 
I don't want children and I never really cared much about marriage. I'm not against marriage, I almost got engaged once, with a ring and talking about wedding plans and all this. 
When I was very young I decided I didn't want a joint account with anyone. I've never had one & won't. I think combining finances leads to a lot of fighting and I am not really interested in putting myself in that position. 
I'm also skeptical about cohabitation. I don't think any more than 3 months living together is for me... so more like a long visit. I just want my own space. When I thought about it, I always wanted at least my own bedroom, and prefer living in separate structures. It would be fine if the structures were on the same plot of land. And someday I might do that with one or multiple partners or their other partners. 
I don't know if I like the idea of owning property together. 
When I was going to get married, I was going to change my name, entirely for that partner. I guess I don't really like or care for my legal name, but it does make me uneasy that people assigned female at birth are just expected to change their names when they marry- it just reminds me that we used to be considered property. But in the situation, I knew it would mean a lot to my partner & my name doesn't matter to me- plus I was obsessed with that fellow, so I would have felt proud. But he was abusive, so now I'm just really glad I didn't get married & don't have that last name.

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But you don't automatically get or need to do that when married... 
My parents never shared a last name, me and my brother got both their last names(no middle names).

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No.
I like being protected legally.

Anyone in here that doesn’t like the idea of things in marriage ?

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