Emotionally Unavailable

I am emotionally unavailable and I am interested in a guy who is also emotionally unavailable. We engage in casual sex and we are good friends. He enjoys to satisfy me and we make eye contact frequently. It feels more like love making than just sex. It’s more than just casual sex. We talk quite often. We enjoy spending time together. Thoughts? Could we both be interested in each other but not being able to be in tune or connect with our feelings be interfering?