Does anyone else find this weird

So me and my baby’s dad have split and I’m with someone new. My daughters dad only see’s her every other weekend sometimes just the Sunday. His mum lives about 45 minutes away and he doesn’t drive she doesnt come down and will only see my daughter if I bring them both down and stay. He’s messaged me to see if I will take him down but I said why don’t she come down and go out. But she won’t and has messaged me to come down with them both. But she won’t see her unless I’m there too. Does anyone else thing it’s weird