need advice and need to vent!

so I'm with my boyfriend or 3 years. we do not live together yet , but I visit him pretty often obviously... I take care of him as in I always make sure he's eating, I even give him facials and etc, I fold his clothes, I clean, I do everything I possibly can do for him to make his life easier, and sometimes I feel like I'm acting like a mother to him , the biggest problem we have in our relationship is that I always feel like he doesn't care as much about me, tbh the most he ever does is pay for my Uber to come to his house, I swear that's the only thing I can think of that makes me feel like he cares about me, when I bring this up he literally brushes it off and tells me I'm psycho.

Today I made him a really nice meal and packed it in for him and I went to go see him, he literally doesn't even appreciate it or show that he appreciated it and it hurt me so much, I made him lunch and I had nothing myself, so I feel like a freaking fool for always trying so hard just for him to not even care.

How do I get him to see my point? I don't want to rub anything in his face, and say I do so much for you and etc because that is wrong, but I just want him to make me feel cared for too...