Advice

So I’m 24 and my husband is 27 we’ve been married for 3 years now been together for 8 years and I’ve talked to him about the things that I feel isn’t the same in our relationship anymore. I’m a stay at home mom and I also work and I’m school full time on top of that I keep the house clean and cook and some days I’m burned out to do anything but I always try to make time to still have a connection with my husband and be romantic. We have been through our ups and downs throughout the years. Just like any other woman I would like to be pampered to by my husband as in like him doing romantic things for me and he isn’t very romantic at all anymore and I have talked to him about that and he said he would do better but I honestly haven’t seen anything special except for he bought me flowers, a card, and chocolates for valentines day. I wouldn’t even care if it was only once a month that he would just do something romantic for me as long as you know every month there’s something I can look forward to and feel special and feel like a woman . He compliments me more and he’s affectionate at times. There are things that I have been slacking on too but I have been putting effort into them. We barely just us talk alone you know just to talk about anything and last night I really wanted to just talk and to me it was like almost forced. So my question is what is it that I can do to have that spark back in my relationship?