Help me be a little more dominant

Hey gals!

So my boyfriend and I (have been dating for 3 months) have only had sex twice this whole month…granted we both work so late and get up early so all the time we have together is taken up by talking and laughing. However, it’s making me feel unattractive, and almost like I’m being friend zoned. But I think he wants me to come into him sometimes, and I’m just not dominant. But I think he’d like to feel sexy and wanted too if I came onto him for a change, and maybe we’d get more sexy time done. Any tips?