anal???

Question

ladies i need your help. what is everyone’s opinions on anal? is it pleasurable or does it just down right hurt? i’ve never done it but if you were to do it, what’d you do to prepare and how did your s/o approach the situation 🤔

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I personally prefer it to vaginal penetration, my pelvis is tilted and I have a shallow vagina so the angles are perfectly aligned for stimulation of my G-spot. The best thing to do is take it SLOW and use fingers and toys to build up to the size of your partners penis. Maybe start with your fingers then his then small plugs and/or beads and then move up to small dildos/vibrators(don't use them while they're on though, the sensation usually triggers a need to 💩 and you really don't want that during sex UNLESS it's a kink then go for it 😉). Lube is your friend but there's a limit to how much to use before it starts working against you. So, as with the size training, go slow and steady with the amount you use. Usually you can start with lubing up the item of penetration and the area right outside your anus and a little bit inside of it with just a clean overall layer of lube (water based with no added things like a tingling sensation, numbing etc as these can cause a reaction for some people and you don't want to risk ruining your experience). If there's too much lube, and I mean like more than half of the 2.4oz bottle being used, it can trigger a sort of laxative effect and create at least a slight diversion and it works be great to just use the restroom and resume activities another day. A very big part of this whole experience(pun intended) is to go in with a sense of humor. There will be shit (not a lot and not always), smells and weird noises it's just the nature of the process. Have fun and don't take yourselves too seriously. Sex of any kind should be fun and about exploration, don't get too caught up in wanting it to be perfect or to meet a certain expectation. Like I said, it's something I enjoy and enjoy it way more than vaginal. It's a wonderful experience for me even when I don't get off on it, it's how my husband and I can express the intimate physical aspect of our relationship with each other without pain or restrictions.

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This all depends on personal preference 😅 personally, I don’t enjoy it but i wouldn’t say it was painful either. I mean tbh i explain it like… it feels like a shit that won’t come out lmao. For preparation you’ll want to be clean in there so there’s no embarrassing messy moments during. Lots of lube & patience for your first time!

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i’m thinking the same things. i’ve explored it by myself but a guy wants to full on do it but i don’t knowww. i know you have to clean very well. my stomach is sensitive to lactose but i absolutely love cheese soo that’s the main reason why i’ve held back haha

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Go super slow with alot if lube. Orgasms are great from it. When you think you used enough lube add more seriously.

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Personally experience. I don’t like it, i tried it and couldn’t take the pain LOL we used lube but it was just so painful for me and I also didn’t enjoy the sensation of needing to poop
Now I have IBS-C so it wouldn’t be wise for me to have anal because I am always stopped up with poo. 
But if you really want to try it, give it a go. Just do some research on how to do it properly. Also make sure you don’t go from the back door to the vagina. That’ll cause a infection. If he wears a condom, he can change the condom to a clean one before going back to the vagina.  If he doesn’t, he needs to wash his penis.

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