Am I asking for too much or being clingy?

Hi guys I have a situation that I am struggling with and I have no one to talk to about it. I am recently married and been with my now husband for 10 years. We moved in together about 3 years ago and I am miserable honestly. He has got a routine down that he will come home and if the tv is on it’s gaming related when I say anything it’s a response of this is my safe space and at least I’m home and not in the streets… and told me to find my own happiness because I can not get it from him. But on some level I believe as a couple you have to make each other happy. But I’m starting to look at him as a roommate instead of a husband. Now he does turn off the gaming stuff for dinner or watch a show we both like but once that is done back to gaming related activities. So at times I do not feel like I’m in a relationship anymore can someone please let me know if I am asking for too much ?