Is watching porn cheating?

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If you are in a relationship and have cheated on your SO multiple times now all you want to do is watch porn is that considered cheating and should the female be mad over it after she has told her SO she doesn’t like it?

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I've been cheated on in the past. Not by my current husband. Porn isn't cheating to me. If he was paying for personalized content, one on ones/mutual masturbation, or talking sexual to someone, that would be cheating. But free videos online that literally anyone can access (that I often access, myself) not cheating. That's just me and my relationship. If you've spoken about it before and it was understood that you view it as cheating and they continue to do so, then that's cheating. All that matters here is how YOU define cheating and the boundaries within your own relationship.

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This is up to you and the boundaries you and your SO set.

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I don't think it's technically cheating, I do think it could be disrespectful. If it's something someone doesn't agree with going into a relationship, you need to express to your partner that it's a boundary you like to have. In this situation it sounds like this guy needs to be dropped off at the curb and left there.

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Ok if he cheated in the past you should have left him there then the porn wouldnt be an issue. 🤷‍♀️

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He's literally cheated on you in the past & you're stuck on him watching porn? 🤦🏽‍♀️ Just leave.

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Is he substituting you and your entire sex life for porn? I watch porn myself sometimes when my husband isn’t in the mood, but porn isn’t my entire sex life. I love being intimate with my husband. That isn’t the case for every single person who watches porn, and you’ve admitted there’s been infidelity. Porn itself isn’t cheating to me, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be a problem in your relationship if your partner would rather always jerk off to a video of a woman who looks nothing like you.

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Watching pornography is considered adultery. Matthew 5:28

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You have to be open and tell him hey this is a breaking point for me I can't be with you if you watch porn over having sex with me knowing that you have cheated then yes I'd consider that cheating.

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Um...he slept with another woman and cheated without debate. Why is porn even a question here?? I’m my marriage, it’s not cheating. We both watch it. I’m not religious, it’s for a quick rush, and it’s a non issue for us. If he actually slept with another woman, he’d be out.

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If he cheated on you already porn is the last thing you should be worried about

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