Dear children of divorced parents

What age were you when your parents divorced? Do you have siblings? What was the reason for the divorce? (You can skip this one, you can specify, or you can just be vague with it) What was the hardest part of dealing with the divorce? Do you feel like it has changed your views on 'True Love' in any way? In what way do you feel as though your parents divorce has made you strong/stronger?

I'm just asking because I'd like to know how other people felt. My parents divorced when I was 11 years old. I have 1 younger brother, Alex & two younger step brothers who anooy the shit out if me. They divorced because, according to my dad, my mom was stealing his money and lying about using his money to pay her bills while she bought a brand new vehicle, and she was going through his phone when he slept, gps tracking him to make sure he was at work, etc. According to my mom, they divorced because my dad was using Methamphetamines and neglecting her and our family. (Funny, I remember him reading to me nightly) anyways, she served him the papers ON HIS BIRTHDAY.

They both definately messed with my head. I now have a distorted outlook on life and I will never know what true love is or what it feels like. All because ever since the day I was BORN, it was embedded in my head that whatever the fuck my parents did, was love. I will never be able to trust anybody again. Makes me wonder....?