To be or not to be

I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost a year. He’s really passionate and emotional sometimes. I don’t know if I’m the asshole but Some things he wants me to do kinda sound like he’s trying to control me. He wants to be covered up my body(mostly my butt). He doesn’t want me to talk to many male ever. He wants to hang out w him all the time even if I can’t. In school he wants me to send pics of my surroundings to see if there’s guys around me. He wants me to quit my job to be away from guys. He makes me confront guys at my job if they just say hi. He doesn’t like my friends bc they told me that the things he’s doing is controlling. I just outside sources. IIf I don’t do these things he will get really mad and tell me I don’t care about how he feels and it hurts him that I can’t do it for him. He believes that people in relationships should do things for each other. Also me and him went on a month break and I started talking to someone else but he made a whole relationship w someone. And he says I’m nasty for talking and doing things w someone else “so fast” and he went for love not sex. Help pls!!

Update: last week when I was taking my state testing for English. Testing (especially for English) has always stressed me and when I’m stressed I get in my head and stay quiet. On the two days I wanted him to support me a bit and we argued both days right before the testing. We argued bc I was too quiet not giving him any attention. And bc that has happened I can’t even look at him the same bc I would do that to him. I haven’t be able to have sex w him bc I keep thinking about. No he’s saying he doesn’t want sex at all and I make him feel insecure about himself and I don’t care about his insecurities.