Ladies I need you help BAD

So lately my husband and I have been pretty rocky. Any minor inconvenience he has in his life he says that he should just commit suicide. Well I told him that we need to get him into seeing a therapist right away and he doesn’t believe in that. We came home and had an argument and he told me that if he went to a therapist and talked that they would tell him that he hates me. And I asked why they would say that and he told me because he literally can’t stand me anymore and that He’s miserable with me. But when I ask him why he stays with me he tells me he doesn’t know. And that he loves me. This is fucking with my head right now. Can you ladies tell me how you would take it?