I’m overwhelmed

Ladies, I just need to vent.

Lately I’ve just been feeling so overwhelmed with being a mother. My kids cry, scream, complain, fight all day long and it’s frustrating. They do not listen to me nor respect me. They can ask for something, I’ll tell them no and they will still do it anyway. I’m sick of it! They do not listen to me and I just feel like I just yell and scream all day. Being nice doesn’t work, being stern doesn’t work. Nothing works. I’m so overwhelmed I just want to cry out of frustration. Plus I’m about to have another baby in a few weeks and I just know I’m going to be pulling my hair out. I honestly and truly do not like being a mother some days, I’m doing it by myself. My kids father (not the child that I’m currently pregnant with) does not do a damn thing for them so everything is on me. My oldest child is literally a cry baby, cry and scream for EVERY single thing, literally everything. Even when I try to do things she likes or that would make her happy she’s just miserable and I just don’t want to be around her most times because she’s just a miserable child. She gets EVERYTHING she wants and gets everything she needs and she’s just still miserable. She doesn’t even know how good she has it, other kids would want what she has! And now my youngest is following behind her and it’s driving me insane. I have a massive headache right now, feel like I’m stressing my unborn child out from me being upset, yelling and screaming. I really feel like I shouldn’t even be having another child right now because it’s just going to add on to my stress, this babies father will be involved so that’s the only difference. The highlight of my days now are when my children go to sleep! 30 more minutes 😢😢😢