Who is right here?

About two years ago me and my husband got pretty drunk together for the first or second time I can’t remember. While he was drunk he got very emotional and started talking about how he would vividly kill himself. Since I was drunk I couldn’t control my emotions too well and started crying and telling him I was about to call the hospital because I didn’t want him to kill himself. He was crying and telling me not to do it. It was a terrible night.

He stopped drinking for a while after that because it was pretty rough. But then we started getting back into drinking here and there. Then again the same thing happened except this time we was trying to drive, he was puking everywhere, screaming at me calling me names, and again talking about suicide. We stayed up till 5am with my basically trying to calm him down, shower him and convince him to come to bed.

Again, after that we haven’t drank in a while.

Now tonight, about 1 month after this happening he told me he’s gonna drink tonight,

I asked him please no.

He says I’m being ridiculous and I’m the only problem here.

I said I feel like he should respect me for not wanting him to drink

He says I should respect him for wanting to drink

He says I’m being controlling and the only problem here is me.

Ladies, do I have a right to not want him to drink? Is it wrong I’m asking him to not?

Someone help. He’s making me seem like a terrible controlling wife but truly

I’m just traumatized and don’t want to deal with this bullshit again. I have work tomorrow I can’t be staying up wiping his ass at 4 am with him screaming he’s about to drive to get food.

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