My Story

I’m writing this so maybe it helps someone else.

I got pregnant with my son in 2020. Everything was going great. At 7.5 months .. 27.5 weeks of gestation is passed away. Placento abruptia.

I have gone through all the stages of grief but this still haunts me.

Fast forward to octo 2021. Pregnant again. Miscarried at 6 weeks. Was bleeding heavily on and off and my hcg numbers weren’t rising very fast.

March 2022. Positive pregnancy test. Numbers were rising. Sore breasts and nausea in full force. 8 week ultrasound today April 25. Baby growing perfectly, outside the uterus. I am sitting here in the hospital parking lot waiting for confirmation 3rd opinion ultrasound and labs prior to surgery tomorrow where I will be partially sterilized.

I can’t help but wonder why the fuck is this happening to me? I am a nurse, I take care of people all day long. I give so much more of myself that I ever thought I would.

My symptoms prior to today. Spotting, very light. Nausea, sore breasts.. absolutely no pain.

I hope someone else finds this info useful and please advocate for yourself if you even suspect something is wrong make them do something about it. Maybe if I had forced them to do an early ultrasound based on past experiences I wouldn’t be loosing my right tube tomorrow.

Speak up, advocate for yourself.