Is every guys intention to get in her pants when they approach a girl?

I never had a bf and yes I’m a virgin. My friend and her brother and I joined a gym cause we are doing a bet on who loses more weight.

Well one day, some guy came up to me to ask if I was using a machine. From there he asked for my name and he gave me his. Well every time I see him he waves at me. Sometimes he comes up to me and talks to me for about 10 min about random stuff. He’s nice.

The other day my friends brother told me “it’s not appropriate to talk to ppl at the gym that’s a red flag.” I was confused and he brings up all this shit about “testosterone” he says that men are hornier at the gym cause testosterone levels are higher and blood flow when they’re lifting. He told me I need to be dismissive because he just wants to “fuck”

First of all he’s respectful 😁 he has never said anything inappropriate.

Last night, we were all leaving when I noticed I left my water bottle. My friend and her brother wait for me in the car while I go back to get my bottle. As I’m leaving, I hear the guys voice tell me “hey how was your workout today?” He was barely coming in and we Talked for about 20 minutes. I told him I had to go. He sorta taps my shoulder goodbye.

Then my friend tells me “don’t you get creeped out by that shit? He literally just popped out of no where in the parking lot. He could have just said hi no need to touch” I mean he just saw me and wanted to talk??? It’s not like we are in a dark alley.

They both said he just wants to test the waters and fuck. 🤢 but i feel like he isn’t even interested in me because if he was he could have just asked for my number if he was that desperate

I’ll literally be on one end of the room and he’s waving from far. Does this come off creepy? He’s my

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