So basically, there’s this girl that my boyfriend used to date (let’s call her Emily) so two of my friends have started talking to her because of a guy that one of my guy friends knows. (We’ll call my friends Anna and Jake) so when I found out that Jake was talking to Emily more and kind of upset me because Emily has been extremely disrespectful to me ever since I started dating my boyfriend, I’ve never even met her but she was rude and called me a bitch because of an instance where I just asked my boyfriend who was on the phone and it happened to be her. Now this happened months ago but she still done things to try to ruin my relationship, when I found out that Jake was talking to her it really upset me and Anna was the one to tell me that joke was wrong for what he did but now Anna is starting to hang out with Emily more and I’m not sure how I feel about it.

I guess I feel a little hurt because I know if the situation was reversed I wouldn’t do this to them, and also makes me worry because after they’ve hung out with her at school they come to me and tell me how much they hate her and how she’s annoying.

It makes me feel like they say the same things about me to her when they’re with her