Am I overthinking again?

Question

So for the last three days my boyfriend is in another country for work.He works at his boss’s house and helps him clean it.I am 20 he is 26 and we’ve been together for 4 months now.During these days he texts me ,,good morning baby” and at the morning we usually talk for a couple minutes.But then during the whole day maybe till 6,7 he doesn’t text or call.Yesterday i was sooo angry and we got into a fight,he told me that he has so much work to do etc.Today was the same,now he is travelling back home.But should i be worried that he didn’t call or text during the whole day.He was online on whatsapp for a while and still couldn’t find 5 min to call.Should i be worried that maybe he is avoiding me and thinking about breaking up or am i just overthinking and overreacting?

Answer

Aren’t you the same girl who got mad an wanted to star a fight with her bf bcuz  he went to sleep instead of calling you back after he worked all day. 
If your this anxious and insecure maybe being in a relationship especially with someone who works overseas isn’t something you should be doing at the moment. Work on your issues. Your definitely overreacting.

Answer

U need to give him space to breathe or he will get tired of you. If he’s at work there’s no reason for you to be mad that he didn’t call or text. You are being suffocating. 
Apologize and change or else he will try and break up.

Answer

I think you need to try to see things from his perspective, I used to get upset when my bf wouldn’t call or text me when he got off, but I realized he’s tired, he wants to relax, and he’ll call or text when he’s finally settled at home. 
Since your bf is away on a work trip he’s probably very tired and wants to get back home, try letting him know that you know he can’t text and call every day all day but you’d like to hear from him every once in a while throughout the day if he can. 
Don’t get upset with him for this, it’s not that he isn’t prioritizing you, but he has to take care of himself as well and sometimes people just don’t feel like talking. I know after work I like to have a little time to myself on tiktok or watching a show. I do text my bf when I get home but you have to try to see things from his point as well

Am I overthinking again?

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