Would you be upset about your husband following pages like this?

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The first page with the blonde girl I have caught him looking at her only fans account before. I mean I don’t follow half naked men on Instagram. Call me insecure or whatever but I have had issues with him talking to women from Mexico online and issues with him looking at other girls only fans. Like he also follows A lot of random girls from Mexico. Like people who don’t even have a lot of followers so it’s like he went looking for them almost, I may be wrong but I’ve caught him using sites to talk to women in other countries. Also I mean if this is what he likes I really don’t look anything like that. He has a thing for Mexican women and I’m not like that

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Ma’am , that’s obviously not the way to go if y’all together. Some men do wha they want to 🤷🏽‍♀️ but me personally my husband shouldn’t b looking at nothing other than me.. we don’t have social media so we can’t relate but your mans should make up his mind on wha he gonna do..

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You should mention to him that it bothers you, see what he does.

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Looking, okay 
Following, not okay 
I don’t care to have the public knowing that my married husband is following porn pages. 
He can look at porn in private without making it known to the world lol

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Nah idgaf who he follows. I have no need to go through my partners phone or even look on his social media from my phone to check who he’s following. But that is OUR relationship. You clearly have a problem with it and he’s clearly going to keep doing it. So either accept that and stay, or leave.

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If this is what women are pissed over, I can see why. I’ve read of women being upset over pics like this but you’re the first to produce examples. All I can say is HELL NO I wouldn’t want my husband following pages like this let alone actual talking to women and on Only Fans. All these women saying they wouldn’t care……don’t believe it. Who would be happy having their man lust after other women?  Not I.

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Only fans is a form of cheating...they pay to view photos and videos of other women. With him following all them and the way they present themsleves...says alot about him. I'd tell you it hurts you and ask him to remove it. If he dosnt...that's another red flag. Then leave.

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That’s YOUR decision to make if it upsets you personally love. You can see there is a mix on here.  Personally, it would bother me, but I also don’t believe a husband should be listing after other women when he’s committed himself to a woman.  That’s just our relationship though.  My husband wouldn’t like me following naked men either.

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I’d care if my husband was talking to them or spending money. If he was just looking? I don’t care. But that’s our relationship. We don’t have boundaries in regards to porn or anything.

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My husband follows pages like these. I don't really care, a lot were from before we were togetherand they've just stayed lmao. That being said, if he was chatting with them and browsing their only fans, uh nope, wouldn't be okay with that.

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For me at least, I’m not cool with it. 
Me and my man have the sort of relationship where I allow him to watch porn if he wants….hell, we watch it together! But that’s as far as it goes. Him keeping pictures? Looking at accounts? And even less chatting with other women? HELL NO. 
I guess if it was just looking at pictures then that’s not that bad but then going out of his way to TALK to them??? No. If I were you, I would talk to him. If he sees that you are upset by it (cuz trust me…if u ask then it does upset you) then he will let go of it or try to compromise (obv, you have to know how far u want him to go or just not at all). IF he gets mad and starts to gaslight you into saying “but it’s not cheating bc I’m not doing anything or I’m still with you aren’t I?” Or something in the lines of that…leave him. It’s not worth it. You are trying to protect your peace of mind and if you don’t feel safe/loved/respected then there’s no point in you staying 🤷🏻‍♀️ *best of luck ✨

Would you be upset about your husband following pages like this?

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