Okay so I don't shave my armpit hair

1) because I can't be bothered and don't see a need to as only women do it

2) because with my health conditions I suffer with really bad hot flushes and therefore can sweat excessively more, so I have to use a specialised deodorant which does stop any unwanted sweating and odor! However it can cause me serious irritation where the pain is unbearable 24/7 once it starts. Shaving before use is a big no and increases the irritation like you wouldn't believe but since not shaving and having armpit hair I'm now able to completely rid my problem.

However I've never dated anyone since I stopped shaving and now I've met a guy that I really like, who likes me, but I don't imagine it's something he's going to expect and I don't really know what to do if anything about the situation. It's getting pretty warm here so I've warn t shirts and things where he could have seen my armpit hair but then I do sometimes get a little self conscious about it so I hold my arms down or do things tactically so to avoid putting my arms in the air for them to be on complete display. I have no idea if he's seen it or not! If he has, then I still know he's super into me and has already accepted it so all is great! If not though, do I just continue trying to relax and let him discover naturally or have a conversation? Or other? Any words of wisdom at all? 🤣🤣😳😰🥰