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So my boyfriend has got in a fight with 2 uncles of mine that almost turned physical and they both come around a lot to my moms house during the week and we are currently staying there for now. Im 30 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend says he does not want our baby around those 2 uncles because they basically disrespected him and act like he doesn’t exist and it’s been like this for a long time. and I understand but I feel awkward about it all. Even though those 2 uncles are problematic and started the problems. I know my mom is going to be upset about all of this when the baby is born. I feel stressed. He doesn’t want them to even talk to our baby or anything like that. I also don’t know if I should have a baby shower because he doesn’t want them there and I am also not close to my extended family anymore things are super awkward with everyone else. On my side everything has gone to complete shit. My mom has a lot of siblings and they are very much always around us because they are close to her. Ughh. What a headache.

Edit:

He’s not saying and I’m not saying they can’t come over of course not, it’s not our house and we wouldn’t. He’s saying he doesn’t want those 2 uncles to be around the baby. Speaking to him or having a relationship with the baby because of what they have done to him.

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