Stay at home mom

I was raised by a stay at home mom and I’ve always felt like that was something I wanted to do when I have kids in the future. either way, stay at home or working mom is fine but I think id prefer being a stay at home mom. im in a serious relationship for almost three years and my bf keeps saying since he works from home that he will never go back to work in person and that he wants to be a stay at home dad as he works from home. and also that since im a nurse and make more (according to him) i could be the full time bread winner. im sorry but I really do not want that lifestyle. I hope no one attacks me for this post but idk I just am worried that my wants are going to be overlooked?? I was raised very old fashion and I understand it’s 2022 and men can be stay at home dads but that’s not what I personally want. and im worried that his lifestyle is going to be fulfilled and mine won’t. idk im just scared. I hope no one gets offended by this post. to the working moms out there- you guys are amazing and I wish I had that motivation.