My BF is a couch potato 🛋 🥔

Im 24 and my 25 year old BF has been unemployed for over 6 months. He’s been playing video games, golfing, going out and applies to 1 job every couple of months. I try to encourage him (to help him look, to start a new project, giving him encouraging speeches) but nothing seems to be working. Every time i bring it up he gets super mad and calls me names and he thinks I’m calling him a loser when in reality I’m just trying to help. Ive tried everything: from tough love, completely not bringing it up, to creating a word document where we can list what he is looking for. I have 2 businesses (a nail salon and a marketing agency) and I’m currently completing my Master’s. I have always been ambitious, and it bothers me my BF doesn’t even pick up a book or wants to listen to my podcasts with me. I feel like I’m not being intellectually challenged.

What do i do? Give him a chance to prove me wrong or just leave. I always hear people saying that people don’t change, as much as we try them to. So would this be the case?