question i desperately need an answer to

me and baby’s dad do not get along. at all. he has busted the windows out my house more than once. i’ve had to call the police more than once. okay our son is due in less than 5 weeks. i’m about to move because he just recently bust my windows out my house again and at this point i don’t want him knowing where i live. so once i relocate he won’t be able to find me at all unless i tell him where i am which i don’t plan on doing.

how do i go by letting him see and spend time with baby in the beginning weeks of baby’s life? like the first 6-8 weeks before he get his shots and is cleared to actually leave the house and go to other peoples houses. my baby dad lives with his mom. they aren’t nasty people or nothing but i stand firm on believing you and baby stay home until 6 weeks. i’ve done it with all my other kids as well but i’ve never been in this situation. with the whole world war 3. between me and their dad. i don’t think he would hurt him at all. but then again like i said earlier i stand firm on believing the whole 6 week rule. i don’t wanna seem like a jack ass for keeping him away for 6 weeks. but idk what else to do. any advice?