Husband found out I’ve been speaking about his family 😐

Since being married to my husband his family have never made me feel welcomed into their family. They complain about everything in my marriage for absolutely no reason! They always try to interfere whenever me and my husband go to a restaurant or we go away on holiday etc. I know they don’t like me because of all the comments they make to me such as “I wish I had a daughter in law like this girl”. They don’t like it when my husband is loving towards me they complain and say stuff like “why is he loving towards you I’m his mother/sister he should be like that with me instead” I don’t find that normal at all 🫤

I decided to speak to a ‘friend’ about it all as I felt I needed to speak to someone. I have tried speaking to my husband before about it but he doesn’t seem to be bothered by any of it. Anyways I told her that his family are interfering in my marriage and that they don’t like it when he spends money on me. I also mentioned to her that whenever me and my husband argue he always thinks it’s acceptable to involve his parents in our arguments (my parents always told me not to involve anyone in your arguments unless it’s really a big problem) I can tell you all the arguments we’ve had have not been big they’ve been small arguments.

I have just recently found out that she has reported everything I’ve said back to my husband and his family 🫣 When I told her my problems she was acting so caring and supportive! I can’t believe someone can be so fake and scoop so low 😑 my husband and his family confronted me about everything I’ve said about them over the phone as I am away visiting family. My husbands threatened to divorce me in which I heard his mother in the background saying “yes divorce”. He said I’ve ruined his family’s reputation! I was only opening up to someone about how they’ve made me feel. He doesn’t seem to care about my feelings just cares about his family and reputation 🙄

I don’t know what to do 🤷🏻‍♀️ does anyone have any advice for me?