Hurtful words

So the guy I'm with, i like him and i think he's great but sometimes the things he says are hurtful.

And he grew up talking like that with his which i get, maybe it's something he's used to. But I'm not. Or I've been called worse which i have thick skin when it comes to things like that but i can be very sensitive too.

He'll say stuff like "i hate you" and sometimes he'll say it laughing, very playful. But if I'm annoying him he'll say I'm annoying or "i hate you duuude" which i tell him hate is a strong word and i don't like it.

Earlier i was burning sage because I've just felt very bad down and i wanted to get rid of negative energy and i was cleansing him and he was saying to get that away from him cause he doesn't believe in that demon stuff (he was also building this table so i kinda broke his focus) anyways i just rolled my eyes and went to the other rooms in my apartment cause i was like whatever I'm not gonna entertain his ignorance. Anyways before that i had said i was gonna clean cause the place is a mess rn. But i forgot why he got up but he started saying that this is fucking stupid and to turn off that stupid shit. He was saying dude you're stupid for doing that. And idk it just hurt me a lot. And he was just laughing saying I'm a dumbass and honestly that's the way he talks, he wasn't like mocking me. But it was still hurtful.

It kinda just made me feel like not cleaning anymore. Like it just made me feel like not doing anything. And then i just kept watching my show while he built the table and i was just thinking of how i should tell him how his words are hurtful sometimes. And i just decided to be the bigger person and help him with the table and it was fine. Then when we were done we sat on the couch watching my show and he was saying "dude you should get up to sweep or something. I thought u said u were gonna sweep." And i told him i didn't feel like it anymore because he called me stupid. And i told him he's mean to me and he started laughing and said that's just the way he is.

Like i get that's how him and his family might get along (or more specifically his sister's) but idk its just hurtful to me.

And he doesn't live with me but he's been visiting for a few days so we have been kinda lazy and just leaving the place a mess. I'm not the most organized but i do clean up after myself. Or sometimes i wait til the house is kinda messy to finally clean but it stresses me out because it all feels so heavy.

Anyways i just told him "Dude i just need help cleaning." And he said he wasn't gonna help me which makes no sense because he's been staying here too.

Idk rn i just came to my room to be alone because i feel like I'm being too sensitive and emotional. I know what you guys are gonna say but i really do need advice and support.