Did I make my friend cry?

Me and a new friend were on the phone and there’s this guy she’d just had sex with who knows she likes him. Like he knows she wants a relationship. She told me they’d been off and on conversing for 4 years. Well today I saw something he posted on Snapchat and I jokingly said “ooh your man went to this cool tiki party today” (the snap was of a tiki party he was at that looked really fun) so she goes to look and she couldn’t see his snap. So she asked m to screenshot it and I did. Turned out he had obviously blocked her or deleted her on snap. Then she went on Instagram and he had unfollowed her there too. So then my friend is like how could he do this? And I tried to be supportive and say things like F him, he’s just a weirdo, you’re better off and we’re gonna have a girls’ day tomorrow etc. But then she started bursting out crying about how she’s realizing she was being used by him and how she feels stupid and worthless to guys. I stayed on the phone with her throughout and talked with her until she went to bed.

I feel really bad I even mentioned his name. Like I had instant regret the moment she started realizing he had blocked her because I know she liked this guy a lot. Was it my fault? I’m so torn up by this but I know I couldn’t possibly feel as bad as she does. I couldn’t even fathom being used like that. He had promised to take her out this summer with him on vacation and she was so excited.

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