Tubes Tied?

I see a lot of mixed feelings about getting tubes tied. I want others personal opinion? How was it? How was the recovery? Any complications? Anyone know why people feel negatively about it? What can I do if I can’t find someone who will do it? Im young (early 20s) but I have kids.

I’ve talked to my husband about a vasectomy and he’s not really for it but hasn’t said no yet. He is thinking about it.