Mom upset about being told last about baby

Anyone else's parent get butthurt if you tell other family 1 week earlier about your pregnancy? I only told inlaws because I saw them in person and I wasn't drinking which isnt normal for me lol. My parents live out of town and I won't see them till July which I had originally planned to surprise them with my bump in July. I'm 11 weeks with my 3rd. Each baby we've told different parent first since it seems someone always gets upset. It's so ridiculous. Are there any passive aggressive memes or quotes I can share about it not being about you all the time lol my mom always seems to take things personally 🙄 not to mention we just moved into our first bought home this past week. And I only know she's upset because she called me back on accident and I could hear her complaining to my dad