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Question

So I was messing with this guy for about 6 months and ended up pregnant. He says he doesn’t want it and would rather I have an abortion. I want the child due to having 2 miscarriages a few years ago and I honestly didn’t think I could have kids. My struggle is so I put him on child support or not? I think my emotions are getting the best of me because I keep thinking how he told me upfront that he didn’t want this baby but I also find it unfair because I didn’t get pregnant alone. Confused mom. This will be my first child and I never saw doing this alone.

Answer

If you want the child, have the child. But be prepared to be a single Mom. And once the baby is born take him for child support, so you have an income from him for the baby. It doesn't matter if he didn't want the baby. He should have worn a condom or got a vasectomy if he didn't want children. Now he will have to pay for a child because he, too, is just as responsible as you for the baby. I wish you all the best and sorry about your previous losses; I know those losses were not easy!

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I think that’s a tough call. He wasn’t trying to get you pregnant so I can understand why he wouldn’t be excited about you being pregnant. You could put him on child support but it just depends if you wanna put him on the birth certificate or not

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Girl… I’m not telling u to abort at all. But don’t expect his participation, cooperation or help.

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