Custody and Child Support

Hello I just have a question.

I’ve been a SAHM for 2 years too my 2 kids toddler n infant. And now I’m getting a divorce cause I’m not able to deal with abused anymore physically and mentally and cheating. I’ve stayed in this relationship because I wasn’t working and didn’t have money but now I’m preparing to move to my parents for help and until I get my own place. I will start back working in my career field next week! The father considers himself a babysitter and don’t like watching or doing anything ever but work party which he stated in text was his only job.

But for you moms that receive child support and custody arrangements how do you go by it. How much does he pay in child support (or even alimony) and how is your custody arrangement set up between you and the father.

Thank You