It’s frustrating …..

I noticed my husband will ALWAYS seek a second opinion from other people. I have asked why he does this or what’s the reason for it? he said it’s not that I don’t believe you, for me it’s easier to believe what others saying then hearing it from just one person….

It’s been years and years of this…it’s so frustrating.

Like I told him last week and other times previously I believe your brother is a narcissist and he’s so violent and dangerous.. I believe he should be in a facility so he and others are safe

Today he told me “omg you wouldn’t believe what this woman at work told me, I told her about my brother and she says he is a full fledged narcissist, he sounds very dangerous! I have to say I agree with her. I replied back “I said that last week……”

He responds I told her I believe he should be in a facility so he and others are safe and she agrees with me. I responded “ya I said that too….” He said ya but it’s different you’re my wife, she’s a coworker….

Or if I say I think you should see a doctor about that lump, He will say it’s nothing …oh it’s nothing

Next thing I know he’s telling me “my sister saw that lump and she told me to see a doctor, so I made an appointment” I’m just like Coooooool I mentioned that to you ….he said ya but it’s different you’re my wiiiife 🙄 and that’s my sister …

Example: I could say I read this article about bats SHOW him the article that bats are black and he still will ask someone else hey man are bats black and come. Back to me and say I brought up to a coworker I read an article on how bats are black and she read the same article and we talked about it for awhile….I will be like ok cool 🙄🙄 nice I showed you that article I pinpointed that you know what whatever????

Would you find this to be frustrating????