Venting

I'm so irritated with my fiance, he never puts things away properly.

I dread when he unloads the dishwasher because things are never put back right, I like to put my cups and bowls away facing a certain way, he doesn't do that, that's fine because I understand that's a me thing, but he put the blender pieces in the fruit bowl, he put my baking pan in some random cabinet that's just filled with random things (I specifically have a baking cabinet that literally only has baking pans in it), he puts ladels in the cutlery drawer, i hate having to go on an Easter eggs hunt to find things.

I have shelves in my pantry for certain things, like cans in one area, pasta in another, baking in another, breakfast in another. He just throws things wherever, which doesn't bother me as much, but it's just another thing I have to fix

In my bathroom, I have 9 shelves, for the most part I don't care where things end up, but I have one shelf I want kept a certain way, and that's the medical shelf, where all the first aid stuff is. And of course that's the ONLY shelf that he throws things on, I just took out his razer, which knocked everything over because there's no space for it, and he threw it on top of everything, and I had to fix it and it took everything in me to not throw that thing out the window. It belongs under the sink, it's always under the sink every time he grabs it.

Are all men like this? I don't understand how he's okay with never knowing where things are. He lives here too, he takes plates and bowls from the same spot every day, but yet when he puts them away, it's in the wrong spot.

I keep my pots in the same place, he puts them away, and then when I open the cabinet they all fall out because there isn't space for them unless you put them away right

I've talked to him, I told him to put things away right, I told him this is incompetence, but it doesn't change, I'm about to lose my mind